Glad to see your sitch seems to have improved so much in the last few weeks!
I have a question for you regarding when she started to change direction. Since my H saying he was sure our relationship was over a few weeks ago and wanting to separate our finances etc, (basically separation), he has become much more relaxed, considerate around the house, spending much more time all day, being in contact more but still seems of the opinion we are on the fast track to separation. I am having trouble working out if he is happier to be getting what he wants (there does not appear to be anyone else involved) and it is a trying to ease me into the separation or if he is still actually considering if he is in or out of our relationship as he has trouble making decesions at the best of times.
Every time I get 100% comfortable with my choice to let go and accept my position, he throws these little hooks in (over the weekend it was under his breath, oh I am so confused I have no idea where I will be living by xmas). I do not let him see I am thrown by these comments but we do spend good time together in our house watching movies etc as well (we have little kids too), and its just so confusing sometimes to know if I am ignoring attempts by him to reconnect or he is just being nice to me.
Any comments on this? How did you work out the difference?
