Man, there's lots of activity on this forum. This thread was several pages down. Sorry to see that really.
I've given thought to comments and warnings of the OM possibility. My W does alot of facebooking and i know she chats with various ppl including some of her coworkers. Is it possible she has more than a good friend relationship with an OM at work (one in particular i can think of)? Heck, anything is possible but really why would i want to fret and worry about it? Doesn't mean the OM would even reciprocate. It would only drive me mad and not achieve anything. I will not snoop either although i have the capability of doing so if i wanted. I don't want to play mind games over this.
W seems to be much happier. She re-signed at the gym last night and is going to tanning at my encouragement. Anything to help her feel better about herself is a good thing. Now i have to do the same and get out cycling and exercising more. Its a good mental exercise for me as well as physical. I'm trying to keep up a PMA while giving W space - which actually means more physical/emotional distance but more 'friendly' conversation. I have to juggle that part because i just don't want to be resigned to be a friend that can talk to her and i have to show some strength and be attractive as well (not sure if i'm describing that right).
I don't want to make this a daily update since i know others have lots to discuss here. Maybe i'll be back in a few days for some advice. I might actually try to help others here as well if i can. That's what we're all here for right?
