Thanks BH, BM, and Upside. I can't say that I am not bothered by what is happening and not so sure my h is going to follow through with contacting the state etc.

It bothers me tremendously that my h could possibly be involved with this skank in this way, but what can I do to change the outcome. Nothing!

I thought about this long and hard and realized it's best to try not think about it and continue on with my life as usual, since what can I do anyway.

My h continues to act like I am his wife and that he loves me so, but not sure where our future is headed. I can't even get him to spend the night not even once, but who cares. Do I really want him spending the night once in a while anyway. NO, I want him to committ or forget it.

Last edited by glamgirl; 06/30/09 05:42 AM.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"