Rob, thank you for your response. I did just what you said about 3 weeks ago and it did spark a conversation. I told her that I had no anger towards her but that I was going to take care of my children. If that means taking child support from her then so be it. I also told her that it was the natural consequence of her choices that she has made. I even told her that I understand her choice to leave(thanks to divorce remedy and the forums!) I have stayed away from talk about divorce hurting the kids because she would only see it as a guilt trip. Is'nt that a DB no no?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final