I had a feeling he was going to do this. It is ridiculous. Just make sure you have all of those saved emails, etc. because I have a feeling you will need them. He sounds like he would do anything to keep his cost down.....even if it is detrimental to the kids. I'm glad you have the "tough as nails" lawyer. I think you will need her.
Just remember that you know what is best for your kids, and you know what is right. Your H will know exactly how to push your buttons, and will try to do this to get his way. Be prepared in court because he will try to make you out to be someone you are not. Stand proud and confident, you have every right to.
We are all in your corner, Karen. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. ((((((Karen))))))))