I hear you! You've opened my eyes especially about her! I hate to admit it but I do tend to be a little naive and always want to think the best of people.
I'll have to admit tonight it felt pretty good when he said he accidentally dialed her - to say to him "well she told me you said to pick up that you told me I couldn't tell you who you could to talk to anymore!"
And, when I told him she said she thought she and I were in the same situation that my H didn't want to work on our marriage either. He did not like that! "see that's what happens when people talk too much!"
My son is such a joy! He has a great sense of humor and really seems to roll with the punches (except when his temper gets the best of him). He has 3 learning disabilities and just outgrew a mild case of Tourette's Syndrome and he takes it all in stride! They grow up too fast. My "baby" is 14! And he's 6'1-1/2" already and still growing. He may surpass my oldest who is a quarter inch away from 6'5".
I plan on just having some great one-on-one time with my son next week! You can bet I'll be staying in touch with my DB support group!
