Cool. Thanks. I'm going to read and reread. I have committed to two days of not posting about any H drama so I don't want to get into it now...but, I have seen what you're saying. Problem is the mindf*ck when he is responsive and then I don't know what to do with him...
I hope you don't mind if I track you down once my two days are up. In the mean time if you want to check out my thread I'd appreciate it.