Conversation with H. According to him he called her by accident that he was actually trying to call me about our son's b-day tonight (our names are spelled the same accept for the last letter). So I thought if she is playing games - game on. I told him that she said that you told her to pickup that you'd told me that I couldn't tell you who you could to talk to. I told him she out there with anger and bitterness and that I will not be calling her again - that I tried to reach out to her and it backfired.
I also told him that she said she thought I was in the same place as her that my H didn't want to work on our marriage. He of course doesn't believe that I wasn't looking at the phone records and saw that they had talked.
He said "see there's the problem too many people talking about things." He didn't seem to have such strong anger tonight like he usually does. Surprised to see that.
So we'll see where the rest of this week takes us. I plan on keeping my distance and leaving with my son on Thursday night for 10 days. I'm going to let him contact me if there's to be contact. I think I need the break as much as he does. I'm going to use this time to really study my DBing book and the Boundaries in Marriage book, and do a lot of thinking and praying and of course journaling!
Puppy I know I have to drive you to frustration at times and I do apologize. I just want to say again how much I appreciate your having my back and the lessons you teach me!
