I was always the big talker in our M, but over the years I have found out that it isn't necessary to always have a steady stream of conversation.
Glad you called a DB Coach. Why don't you just let your H go to the MC and you stick with the Coach? I think maybe the MC means well, but she doesn't know about DBing and your H doesn't need to know your tools you are getting through the DB Coach. What do you think he would say if you told him you thought it would be better to go separetly to counselors or that maybe not the same one?
I don't agree with what she's having you discuss. I would not want to talk about that in front of my H either.
BTW, I liked your advice on LFH's thread.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
