Just keep on keeping on, and start posting what you're doing for YOU! Dealing with a depressed apouse is very long, tough work. I have some questions after reading your sitch. Will post on your thread.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK