It took my H a long time to really relise the damage he had caused and the long term impacts. In the beginning I think he felt 'justified' in the pain he had caused.....and in some ways he was. As time went on though and he saw the long term impacts it had had on me and he really hurt. Perhaps this is what's happening to your H. It could be a good sign.
(((((HUGS))))))) Piecing is very hard. More than once I have considered throwing in the towel and I have had it easier than most.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
