any well wishers or flaw pointer outers would be great right now... i'm starting to lose it all over again... what should i do or what should happen next?
Wait her out. Let her contact you. Drop off the face of the earth. Whatever amount of time it takes, wait until SHE contacts you. Let HER wonder what is up with you for a change.
Did I lose him? Have I gone too far? Why hasn't he called?
That can only be done by leaving her alone and letting her FEEL that you are out of the picture... This is when women get their wake up call. AFTER the man lets go. Not before he lets go and not while he is trying to win her love. She needs to see a strong man who is moving on down the road.....
Be that man...
In the meantime go out and have the time of your life. Enjoy friends, hobby's and life... Wear the same underwear for three days straight if you want to. Watch sports 24-7.
Be selfish and do what YOU want to do.. (except pine for her or call her)
In other words.. Focus on being a happy man. Women are attracted to happy men, confident men, men who do not chase them when they want out.......
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what should i do or what should happen next?
IF you follow this advice she will call you at some point down the road with a lame excuse JUST to see if you are STILL waiting for her.
Fool her.. Don't be her safety net. She needs to chase YOU for awhile... It works better that way for you.
