I am doing all (most?) of those things. All the space in the world. Respect. Zero pressure.The questions just rang true as stubborn things that rattle around in my head at times.
Re: "How do we open it back up again to begin the work?" I do know the answer: Be the kind of man to whom she may some day say, "Let's open it back up again and do the work."
Thanks, again.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac