Planning separation/divorce and need help

[kat727]

If you are still pretty emotional about the situation, and it sounds as if you are, don't do anything yet. I would talk to a doctor and see what treatments may be available for your H. Individual Counseling is a good start for you to work on your issues and perhaps your H will consider this too for himself.

I am sure nothing beats down a man's ego faster than having this kind of thing happening. Patienance and understanding as well as a willingness to address the problem is key for both of you.

Rather than taking so much time to plan your escape, why don't you turn that energy into your marriage?

kat