N, I'm very happy to read that your neighbor came over and assisted you w/the tree limbs. They can be such a problem!
About your xh and his ow/wife. They aren't as crazy as some and I would also like to catch her w/identity theft!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Yes, I would love to catch her with ID theft but I have a strong feeling that is not going to happen. I talked on the phone with my friend tonight. She said that my ex is like he is in a daze & this woman is running the show. She said that OW keeps a close watch on him, will not let him have friends. She said when she walks in the room it's just creepy & spooky. She also said that she truly believes this OW is a sociopath. Well, I didn't exactly know what all that was about so I looked it up on the internet, this is scary!!!! Very scary!!! She said that her & her husband are praying that my ex gets away from that woman & soon before she totally distroys him.
What a mess!!! Anyway, they said my ex is not the same person right now, it's like he is a stranger & also this OW, it's her misson to get him a job, even pretending she is my ex. I knew there were messed up people in this world but I guess I didn't realize how messed up & how they could capture & control someone else.
Ok, right now all I can do is pray, I would like to ask for your prayers too.
Also, my friend asked me to pray for her brother, he has colon cancer & is going back for his 2nd surgery on July 7th, so I want to ask all my internet friends to pray for him also.
I pray that your H will see the truth and wake up from the craziness, and that your friend's brother is healed from his cancer and that the doctors know the best thing to do for him. Hugs, PH
N, I'm not just offering up thoughts and prayers, but positive thinking as well for your friend's brother.
The scenario about the runaways fits most of what I've seen and heard when it comes to the spouse snatchers and their prizes. It's quite difficult to imagine our spouses being in such situations, but they do become children and allow the snatchers to run their lives. It's just so crazy.
It will play out and you want to be as far away from that mess as possible. It's only going to get ugly if he doesn't get a job.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I hope that you will have no more storms and branches coming off your trees. At least you have some nice neighbours who help you with clearing up the mess.
I am so sorry about your friends brother who is so ill. I will keep him in my thoughts.
I read your post. It is very strange what kind of OW your XH has. Like you I just cannot understand how a MLCer's brain functions.
At the beginning I was also uncomfortable going out on my own, but my confidence grew and now I can go almost everywhere on my own. However, the only thing I don't like to do is going to a dancing on my own. I would feel terribly uncomfortable doing that. But you should pull yourself together and go out at least to eat. Sometimes one gets to know quite some nice people.
Recently I saw a TV programme on "flirt coaching"! The coach said that one can start a conversation with something simple like "isn't the weather….." or "is this seat occupied?" etc. and then the conversation is rolling. I tried it before but sometimes the opposite does not respond and then it gets me nowhere – LOL. The coach also said that humour usually gets a good response. Although the coach was talking more about how men should approach women I still use the same "tricks". Usually I get a laugh if I say something funny and it also breaks the ice.
I will pop in occasionally but not very often. However, I guess I will be lurking. I wish you all the best and hope that one day you will also get the nerve to go out on your own.
Hi, NLT, Wow, that email from your X's friend's W was a mind-bender. Crazy!! Wonder how long it will take for your X to wake up and say to her, "Get behind me, Satan!" I have to say that when I read about how your X looks and acts around her, one of the things that came to mind was..."Is she drugging him??"
Hope you are doing well and being kind to yourself!
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
OMG Nlt, I can't believe the latest developments... OW wanting to hack into your email, OW impersonating your XH. Then again, I really shouldn't be surprised. I remember you saying several times, from the few emails you received from "XH", that they really didn't sound like your Ex. You said all along that you thought OW was writing you some of those emails. Well, I guess now you know. I, too, pray that your XH wakes up before she destroys him completely. You hang in there!!!
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
