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[wolverine1997]

Next question. I have been working hard at doing a 180. I stopped calling her at work everyday (unless it is actually important or involves the kids), I stopped trying to start conversations with her while at home, I stopped asking her to do things as a family and have begun making plans with just me and the kids. When she goes out or not at home when I get home I have resisted the urge to call or ask questions about whereabouts (unless the kids are with her, but I still think it is incredibly rude not to call if you are going to be several hours late coming home from work). So far none of this has had any effect, positive or negative. I think she prefers it this way. Should I stay the course? What should be my next step?