wolverine1997 - Thanks, we just moved and the Book is in one of our Boxes. I will make time this week and get that done. I know I really need to read that book. Thank you for the advice. She is not really into reading it with me, but she knows all about the website and has read parts of the book online. I myself broke down and purchased the book...
The Wifey - I know I have the gift of time and I am grateful, I really am. I will look into those other books you suggested, thank you, but like you said (and others), I need to read the DR. first. That I will get working on in the next day or two.
I know I have to spend much more time on this sit learning the language/lingo. I also know I have to give more to my wife even if I feel like I am currently giving my all. I feel that if she is not where she needs to be to make this marriage work, I am not doing what is needing to be done and I have more to give. I am really working on understanding her needs and working on what makes her go crazy (about things I do). It is hard because I feel like some things I do are or would be nothing to any other person, but because I have hurt her in the past, every little thing gets her angry. That is what I am working on trying to overcome at this time.
Intimacy is important to me. I believe that is important to any marriage, but if I have to do without for now (until we are better), my marriage is number one and comes first before my intimacy needs.
“It’s been since last July”, sorry to hear about that. I really am.
