Another Waw

[Refuse to quit]

She was upset with me not spending enough time with her and the kids. She told me the other day that she was so lonely for so long. She had left back in Sept 08 for about two weeks and when she came back we started to go to counseling. We were making progress but working basically on communication with each other. That was what I had thought the problem was. So when she left again in April myself, family, the counselor and just about everyone else I talked to were in complete shock. I am sure as of this point there is not someone else in the picture. For either of us. Never has been as far as I know. I admit that we could have spent more time together and wish now we could have. But I am not trying to dwell on the past only looking for the future. Every time I take the kids out now I make a point to invite her to go. I pray that one day she will go with us. I wish I had known it was such a big issue for her. We used to spend a lot of time together before we had kids. Going out, movies, dinner, etc. That all really tapered off with kids. I feel like that is something we both could have been better at but feel like I should have taken more opportunities to do so. I agree with you that these issues are not big enough to end a marriage over but that is what I am dealing with. In court paperwork she wrote that I was either working or away from the kids at home doing yard work etc. I know its not true. There were tons of things we did together but obviously not enough.
RTQ