They were on the phone for an hour this morning so I'm sure he told her that. He seemed surprised when I called him at work to let him know I called her. I'm sure they both think I checked the phone records to and saw that he called her. I will be checking now to see if he calls and talks things over with her.

I don't know after his behavior this weekend and finding out today that he called her - I'll be extremely surprised if he says anything other than he doesn't want to work on the marriage.