Remember that you are not only doing this to save your marriage but also doing this to save you. You want to make a better you first and foremost. By working on you, you make yourself a better spouse for this relationship or the next if this should continue south. You have to get to the point that no matter what he does you are going to be ok. Him seeing that you will be ok with or without him actually makes you more appealing. Remember, you are doing a 180, the old you would have given up but the new you continues to push on not just for the marriage but for yourself. While this is obviously painful try to use it for motivation. Continue on with your life. Learn how to drive, join the gym, find another photographer for your business. Also, if you haven't tried, now is the time to apply the last resort techniques. Don't go mad, get mad and do something about it. Do something with you.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066