Guess I was feeling guilty about talking about her situation to others. She didn't cause my situation as she reminded me. I genuinely wanted to reach out to her because I do feel bad for her situation. I thought she might give me some insight which I must say she did - my H doesn't want to work on saving our marriage!
They are alike in that they both like to play the victim and they feed off of one another.
I'm weirdly at peace right now. At least she told me the truth that he doesn't want to work on things. We'll see what he has to say tonight.
We're going to definitely need to find some way for him to move out I think. Not sure how to do that unless he's willing to stay with a friend.