Does your church offer any sort of counseling for your children? If they dont have anyting maybe networking among the church members will yield you some results.
Honestly, C'ing for your children is a health issue and your W should be equally as responsible for payment. If she refuses I would discuss that matter with your attny and see what options you have to have her contribute to the cost.
Also, check w/your free C'ing and see if he has any ideas for free C'ing for kids. Or maybe look around for a child based support group for kids of divorce.
There must be a resource out there - you just need to find it.
