Mojo. The life force. The essence.

[AlexEN]

Funny you should suggest that Alex. About a year ago, NoCodeBlue, one of the posters on this site, gave a few marriage self-help books as a wedding present to a young couple. He was later ridiculed by his W and MIL and it was generally agreed upon by her family that this was a gross transgression. Very sad. It seems good intentions are always punished.

That's why I do it anonymously -- with a note saying -- As in love as you are today, these are not books to read now, but as your marriage grows. Love evolves. These are books I wish I'd read during the first few years of my marriage as they would have made the following years even better. So, put these aside and read a chapter from each each time you argue... Here's to hoping they take a long time to read...