Don't even talk to me about pro-divorce counselors. I thought our few visits to a MC were about recovery but they were nothing but an exit interview.
Marriage books as a wedding gift are a good idea. "Men are from Mars..." and "Passionate Marriage" by Schnarch come to mind.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
