I'm glad you sent the letter. And the Renoir painting was an unbelievable fit. I think your wife has a tougher road to hoe than she imagines. Maybe OM is waiting for her with open arms, ready to pick up the slack. And then again, maybe he is not. Only time will tell. but you are not likely to be successful in changing her mind. She is determined to go on her journey. If in the end, she realizes that her life was better as your wife, then she might want to reconcile. I see Dorothy in Oz searching for the Emerald City. But once she gets there, she might realize that there is no place like home.