I just found out from reading another thread that there is a co-dependents anonymous organization that has meetings through out the US. I just found some in my area. I am going to go to it.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...