You are not screwed up or damaged. You are surviving. Don't kid yourself for one minute that by thriving your kids will think it was easy. They are right beside you. This isn't about going against your values.
You are strong and you can find that person you are meant to be.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.