I would not do that. That will probably be seen as manipulating behavior (which when you really think about it, it is). Not that it's not for a good purpose, but I wonder if it will move you TOWARDS your goal...or away???
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!