You are among friends here and I hope we can bring you some comfort and advice that will help.
Sorry that you find yourself in this situation. It's a devastating blow to your life, but you will recover from it. How well you recover depends on the steps you take right now.
I have a few questions to ask you.
1)Do you have any children together? 2)How long have you been married? 3)Is he having an affair?
First and foremost - stop contacting him at all. If you have kids, that would be the absolutely only reason to contact and only in an emergency then.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!