YEP.. I have been telling women on this site very same things for quite some time. For some reason they just don't get it or don't want to believe it. I guess they think if they just love us enough and wait for us that we will come to our senses.. How wrong they are. Men will just keep on doing what you allow them to unless you give them a crisis....
I have seen ONE woman get it... PearlH...
It worked for her. Last that I knew, she WAS back with her ex.
You know, I was having a conversation with a friend yesterday about how I started doing things like wearing makeup everyday, going out with friends every weekend, dressing up for work and for going out, buying cute underwear - basically stuff I did before my daughter was born.
She says if I try to make him jealous, he'll see right through it - although I'm not really trying to make him jealous. Just trying to make myself attractive. Just not necessarily only to him.
But if the male experts say that this is a good thing to do, I will do it It's an ego boost to have men notice you and smile at you, even when you're eight months pregnant.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
It's an ego boost to have men notice you and smile at you, even when you're eight months pregnant.
