One thing about men is that we are possessive with our women and if we think some other man is going to swoop in and take them then it gets our attention. I don't know your sitch but for most women I'd say start ignoring the ex and start making yourself look pretty and going out. Get your confidence back up and look good since men are visual creatures so we notice things like that.
YEP.. I have been telling women on this site very same things for quite some time. For some reason they just don't get it or don't want to believe it. I guess they think if they just love us enough and wait for us that we will come to our senses.. How wrong they are. Men will just keep on doing what you allow them to unless you give them a crisis....
I have seen ONE woman get it... PearlH...
It worked for her. Last that I knew, she WAS back with her ex.
