Puppy, I see your point about the deadline, but I don't understand something, if she wants out, why would she want me to call off any action at the end of a deadline? She has told me she doesn't want the marriage to succeed. I can't see her suddenly upset about papers being filed. I have already told her I don't want to live like this, and her answer was that we can't afford to support a house and an apartment, and we have no equity in the home to sell it and get 2 apartments, etc. Also, why would she care if I lose my love for her a little at a time? I think she would welcome that news, it would make it easier for her as she keeps telling me she doesn't want to make me sad. Do you understand what I am confused about here? Wouldn't these actions just encourage her to either continue or advance an EA or even just push her to put an end to the marriage? I am sincerely confused here, I am not disputing your advice. Thanks again.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
