Just found out wife filed

[RobD70]

I think it really depends on the individual. I've also read posts here from people who went ahead and filed, and the WAS was happy because it gave them what they wanted.

Yea, be be careful what you wish for lol. In Texas you have to wait 61 days before you can move forward which gives then some time to think about what they are doing.

Of course if they are still pushing for it after that then it's best to just cut your loses. Not all marriages can be, or should be, saved.