Just been to your thread and posted there before I saw this.
Yes, the anger/blame thing is very much where my H is at.Thank God for DB as I have pulled back enough to know that game and don`t whack the ball back in his court when he fires at me. I (mostly!) just listen and validate(Ok I had a major backslide last weekend!)
Anyway today is another day. I`m hearing you in your thread when you`re looking to all the posibilities in your life unfolding from here -with or without H.
I`m really weighing up every possibility but in the mean time, trying to get a life of my own.
I`ve been(apart from this weekend`s backslide) in LRT for maybe 8 weeks now. It has just made H angrier and trying to get at me. But I feel that`s positive as its forcing him out of his shell.
I`m going to continue with LRT and 180s. I have tons of interests, thank God, good friends and three great kids to keep me entertained. But I`m also going to go more even more sexy and mysterious from today.I`m on hols for the next nine weeks so I`ve loads of time to indulge myself!
And out of LRT, looking after me and the kids, and 180s I don`t have a save marriage outcome in mind. It will all help with the next phase, whatever that will be.
Will add you to my watched posts. I`m really optimistic for you making great choices and having a great future!
