If you're waiting "to see what happens in the morning," then you have NOT really moved on (not that I thought for a moment that you did).
JR, you seem to have a pattern of passive-aggressiveness, swinging wildly from passive/pleasing/enabling behavior where you do NOTHING, to just telling her "that's it -- I'm done -- we're thru."
I would suggest to you that there is a "third way" -- the way of DBing -- a middle way where you lovingly detach, set and enforce healthy boundaries, and work on yourself thru 180s and GAL etc.
I'm not seeing where you ever REALLY did that, not for any length of time really.
You can "give up" if you want to, but I'd suggest rather than giving up, you "drop the rope." Dropping the rope does NOT mean giving up. Go back and re-read about it in DB or DR book.
