Your M doesn't need to be loveless. It is too catch-all to say you don't care. It is a bomb to you. I understand.
Please read and then listen to the audio version of marriage fitness. I know you are tired. I know you feel like giving up. So does your W.
It is not the inevitable unless you choose it.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.