Yes it was pretty near perfect. However the very next day H didn't want to come out to our usual salsa class he was acting very fed up like he felt he was giving too much by coming to salsa with me. Now he is talking about moving out of town, so he will have a longer commute to work I don't really see his reasoning on this, if he has a longer commute he will be even more grouchy when he comes home, he will see less of the kids and he will still have to put up with the same old $hit of working in the city. which is what is really grinding him down.

Last night H came home v. late as he usually does on Wed when he goes drinking with his diving buddies. It just happened that DD(2) had woken up about 10 mins before he came home (just as I was dropping off to sleep myself) and I had this feeling that he was going to come in and make a noise that would wake her. Sure enough 10 mins later home he comes, clattering about the place, so as he walks in the bedroom I was shushing him. Well he just turned on his heel walked back out again, started banging around in the kitchen; next thing he is back out the front door. WTF!

I phoned his mobile and he answered, I apologised for shushing him. It turns out he had a $hit day and even a $hit evening at the dive club so me shushing him was the last straw. After he had ranted for a bit he started to apologise and say he shouldn't take it out on me.

Anyway this is just a bit of a vent really, not sure what I am trying to say here. Just that the glow wore off pretty quick and that you can never give up DBing even when you are half asleep and your drunken husband comes clattering through the door - LOL


Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong