if u feel u have more to give, more patience left in you, feel like u can continue to stand for your marriage, then u wait until u dont feel that way any longer, u wait until u feel u have covered all of your bases, no stone unturned.
make sure u are protecting yourself financially, sometimes finances are what pulls the plug on the waiting.
i have to say, i have covered everything, done everything i can, left no stone unturned, but still feel i have it in me to wait and fight for my marriage. so im still here, never thought i would be.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09