Firstly, do you think that your W would REALLY abort this baby? If the answer is yes then truly do you want to be with someone like this? Personally I would say no and end the M.
Secondly, just WHY did your W even get pregnant and THEN let it get to this stage? In order to abort the baby? (My guess is no), or in order to have another stick to beat poor old GH with? ( My answer to this is a resounding YES).
OM has erectile problems and your W likes sex......come on.....who is she kidding. I belong to another board where there are women who are married to men they love and have had children with and who have these problems, (age reated). After 25 plus years of M they are thinking of walking out on them even though they love them......your W won't give up her child for this.
One worry I have though is that they might bet setting you up to think OM wouldn't look after your child because he has these problems but in actual fact he will......so they will fake a termination. I think they know you have access to their emails and are playing you.
Other than that I think the whole thing is a big wind you up. Your W obviously likes hving a H who can provide well for her.....your job is going well....I do not believe she will easily leave her cash cow. Think GH, do you want your W on those terms.....or do you document all her wierd behaviour and then go for custody after the baby is born?
I know you say that you know what is involved in a termination as things get later and later but does your W? Is Australian law that different from the UK law on this? I honestly think your W is going to find it hard to get a termination at this stage when there are no medical factors in play.
GH, I honestly think your W is playing you and just being very cruel. As far as I can see, to actually walk away from her at this point would be a good thing whilst making it very clear that you will always be there for the baby. Whenever you have turned away from your W she has come running. This pregnancy thing has meant that she has got YOU on the hop. Turn it around........make her chase you. You can go on and have other babies, this might be her only chance;....as a woman I don't think she will give that up. If anything she will hope OM will come around.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
