Where am I? How long will it last?

[needinghope]

Thanks you guys, but I still have so many questions.

So if no papers are filed and you're still both going to counseling, but living apart, at what point do you step back and say, "alright, someone's got to make a move."? I mean 1-2 years! What's happening during that time with the M? I know that I will devote that to me growing stronger, but what should I expect to see from the M over the course of that time? At what point does DBing turn into Move-oning?