Wow, these freelance writers are a sour lot! So this one can't hack marriage because she is in love with a new man, but she has proposals on how the rest of us should live. We should all be like her. And nowhere in there is there even a slight suggestion that for a moment either husband or wife should be nice to the other, or thoughtful, or caring. Nope. Marriage is a business arrangement and the sooner you reach that point, the better. Just disgusting.