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[Done in VA]

I get what you mean about your 180 - that's where it's different between WAH & WAW. In my sitch, I was more like the H. So I am always worried about being controlling wheras your sitch is the opposite.

Once you "get" detachment, it's almost like your blinders come off. You will read other people's posts & immediately know where they "are at" because they will talk about what "they did" and how "WAS" responds. Once you truly detach...it doesn't matter how WAS responds anymore, it's ALL ABOUT YOU & KNOWING you made your changes & responded appropriately.