Hi hopeful,

Yeah, I saw that movie......and I did like that idea. Because until you actively search for what you want......you will never find it, I think. For years I have had a file titled "My wants"...guess what? Its an empty file!!!!!!!!

Its definately something to think about. I just need to focus on myself and my career. One thing I know I WANT for sure!

The "responsibility" aspect of life can be overwhelming as it is and I think for MLCers, its probably exaggerated. I thought it was interesting that my H said he MIGHT be having a mid-life crisis, but isn't he too young? (he's 38)...its like he answered his own question within that question! Have a great week everyone.


Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09