GIMA,

Thank you for the 2 x 4. My pity party is over! Thanks to you, Sandi, and Hopeful...I'm re-energized with hope and resolution...at least for the moment. It's amazing how emotions can turn on a dime.

I love your quote: "He has someone out there who needs me more than my W." My mother said something like this to me before. She prays like Sister Theresa. The other day, she told me that her prayers have changed from "saving my marriage" to "my son finding happiness"...we both shared tears over this re-direction. I am really looking forward to seeing her on Tuesday!

Again...our situations are so similar...we're going to have to support each other during the dark times and celebrate our successes. I'm lucky to have found this website!

Thanks,
LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009