Thanks everyone. Contrary to what you might be thinking, I am GALing like crazy! I'm hardly ever home! I've got plans almost every night I don't have the kids. I'm exhausted!! :-)
I will be declining her offers moving forward. Even at this last dinner I didn't interact with her much at all. Just concentrated on the kids. I'll try to make our kid transitions as quick as possible with no interaction. I can't quite have her wait in her car because for now we switch cars too. Our minivan stays with the kids. That will be changing once we have legal papers signed. Fun stuff...
