WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

Sure is a lot of contact from a woman who claims she wants a D from you, isn't it? Glad you had a good day.

Sandi,

I agree. It does seem a little conflicting as she is the who filed for divorce on Jan 9th and seems hell bent on proceedign with a divorce. That's the part that I really don't get. As you mentioned in one of your earlier posts, she doesn't seem to be full of hatred/anger like the typical WAW. Maybe you are right that she's keeping me on deck in case she needs something to fall back on.

One of the things that came up today was how I had an interview for a job about 2.5 hours away. I told her that it's just an interview but before I decide anything we will talk about it. I know that was one of her issues in the past, I would change jobs for more money or promotion and wouldn't really consult her. I would pretty much come home and tell her that I was starting a new job in 2 weeks. I know that was wrong of me and it made her feel unimportant and not part of the decision making process as these decision does affect all of us.

But we will cross that bridge if/when we get there.....

Thanks for stopping by again. Hope you are feeling well still.