Puppy, Sandi2, Gucci Loafer - your take on this?
Sandi2 and Gucci if you have some time I'd appreciate it if you'd look at what I've posted for the last several weeks and weigh in. I value your opinions!

Just got back from taking our son and his friend to the lake this weekend. Got stuck on the highway for an hour why they cleared an accident.

We got along fine this weekend I guess. I made one mistake I think. We were at the movies and I was freezing so I asked him if he could put his arm around me. Did it but after awhile took it away and said he was uncomfortable. I think he may have meant the position he was in but who knows? Ok so not the best move on my part.

Couple of comments he made where I've had to keep myself from overanalyzing them and would love to know your take on things. One was when are you going to visit your brother? I thought I'd take (our sons) on a trip then. Now keep in mind when I was going to do this in May he said I don't think this is a good time if we're supposed to be working on our marriage. He also asked when I would be traveling for work again. I told him I don't know. I may need to travel this Fall but I don't know if it's such a good idea under the circumstances. He said something like I don't know how it could hurt. So of course my mind wonders -he has made the decision to not work on the marriage?

He's been acting a little put off since we got back from the movie Saturday night. I've been doing my own thing today. When we got home he immediately went downstairs. I'm hanging out in the office. Probably he didn't get enough space this weekend!

I'm going back down to the lake Thursday night with my youngest(14). His birthday is tomorrow so my H will have to be around me some more! Poor tortured man! I don't know if he'll come down for the July 4th weekend or not. I know we'll be on our own for the week after.

What would you think about me not contacting him at all (except in case of an emergency) for the 10 days we're gone? Let him be the one to contact me (if he does?)

I think I'm almost to the point where I just want to be away from him too! I'm so tired of being blamed for all his unhappiness! He's taking zero responsibility for anything. I still can't believe he had the nerve to say his business and his marriage caused his health problems!

I also feel like I can't make any mistakes in his mind. Like he's watching my every move. I feel like I really screwed up Saturday night at the movies! Help!