Thanks for your post. As terrible as this experience has been, I am really thankful that these boards allow us to support eachother. Amazing that so many people are going through it too.
Been reading about your sitch. I can relate the experience of having spouse talk in absolutes...as in "things were ALWAYS" or in the finality of choice to D. Its helpful to understand possible reasons why they need to interact this way, though still does not make it hurt less.
I think you are doing a fantastic job navigating. Hang in there for now. Like the experienced folks here say, sometimes doing nothing and letting things ride is actually doing the best thing. Or, if you are not sure what to do, do nothing until it becomes clear.
Will check back soon. :-) TD
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
