Unless, of course the roles are reversed in your M and it's your H who can't get in the mood when things aren't going smoothly in the R!! And you the W who needs physical intimacy to feel connected.
I find no end to the irony that most of us wind up paired with a S who is on the opposite end of things when it comes to this issue.
I would frankly LOVE some make-up lovin...for many reasons (self analysis not appropriate for Fran's thread ) I am the one who can get turned on at the drop of a hat!