Thanks folks. I am debating whether I should send it or do "nothing" for a few days. He actually flippin' slapped my butt when he was leaving today (after dropping the kids off)! I said "no, that's not working for me." And he wanted to know what was wrong with me?????
Then he texted me about how much he misses the kids...I haven't answered.
My problem is that I feel that he is still testing me all the time but I can't be on as his wife under these circumstances and whenever something goes well between us he reflects on it as negative (doesn't fit with his plan) and reaffirms basically that the good times are really just slip ups on his part and he's really clear that we cannot be together.
I don't know if I should talk to him straight up about it (what kind of R does he want) or just do my own thing. I do know that I have the mental mastery of a pigeon these days...
